Projecting on
““Why can’t we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together? I guess that wouldn’t work. Someone would leave. Someone always leaves. Then we would have to say good-bye. I hate good-byes. I know what I need. I need more hellos.”-Snoopy
“I do not say ‘good-bye.’ I believe that’s one of the bullshittiest words ever invented. It’s not like you’re given the choice to say ‘bad-bye’ or ‘awful-bye’ or ‘couldn’t-care-less-about-you-bye.’ Every time you leave, it’s supposed to be a good one. Well, I don’t believe in that. I believe against that.”-John Green (Will Grayson)
Good morning SQers! Happy New Year! I hope you had a great time ringing in 2012 with friends and loved ones. I do not know about you all, but I could not be happier about letting go of 2011 and embracing a new, hopefully much better year. You might be wondering what on earth is with the quotes I chose for this week. I think by now you have gotten to know me fairly well and you know that I do not beat around the bush. Most times, I will tell you honestly and bluntly what I think. This week’s a little different from most in that this will be my last post for a while. I have never really been talented at doing good-bye’s or final anythings so I figured I would address things in post form leaving you with fun quotes as I do every Sunday.
Oh boy…where to begin? Well when I started this blog as my New Years’ project two years ago, I did it on a whim. It was just more of an organized way to keep track of the quotes that I found and sent to my friends & family every week.What started for me as a collection of post-its transformed into something that was bigger than I bargained for. I never pictured it growing into something this big. I expected the majority of views to come from me and my mom honestly. These past 2 years by no means have been an easy 2 years for me at all, but I think writing this blog was definitely a good thing for me. It was an outlet for me to share the things that were on my mind. I loved writing every Sunday ( and I hope you all enjoyed reading it!)
That being said, as most good things even writing this blog had to eventually come to an end or a prolonged hiatus. I only say hiatus because I do not know if I will be indefinitely done and to say I will never write on here again is a big statement. I probably will write a sporadic post or so whenever I feel inspired, but it will not be the regular every Sunday posts I once promised. It makes me sad to be letting go of SQ, but I look forward to finding my next project. If I have any advice to you about personal projects, it is that if you have an idea…go for it! You never know how it might end up changing you as a person and you have nothing to lose by investing in yourself.
“Start a huge, foolish project, like Noah…it makes absolutely no difference what people think of you.”-Rumi
Finally, I want to thank all of you for being such loyal readers. Thank you for sharing, commenting and telling me what you thought of my posts. I learned a lot from you and wish you all the best! Continue to come back whenever you want because the physical blog is not going anywhere. If you have topic suggestions..email me at sunday.quotes@yahoo.com. In the spirit, of the new year…here is my wish for all of you:
“May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you’re wonderful, and don’t forget to make some art — write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.”-Neil Gaiman
That’s all for now. Have a great week!
See you next Sunday (whenever that might be),
❤ SQ
P.S. As soon as I find my next big project, I will let you know 🙂
iDefy
- Before you get incredibly over excited, this has nothing to do with Apple. Just a play on the i-naming craze.
“When we pick up the newspaper at breakfast, we expect – we even demand – that it brings us momentous events since the night before…We expect our two-week vacations to be romantic, exotic, cheap, and effortless. We expect anything and everything. We expect the contradictory and the impossible. We expect compact cars which are spacious; luxurious cars which are economical. We expect to be rich and charitable, powerful and merciful, active and reflective, kind and competitive. We expect to be inspired by mediocre appeals for excellence, to be made literate by illiterate appeals for literacy…to go to ‘a church of our choice’ and yet feel its guiding power over us, to revere God and to be God. Never have people been more the masters of their environment. Yet never have a people felt more deceived and disappointed. For never has a people expected so much more than the world could offer.” –Daniel J. Boorstin
“But who can say what’s best? That’s why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a life time, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives.”-Haruki Murakami
Good afternoon SQers! I apologize for the late post, but my post-finals weekend went by in a blur. However, I do owe you all a post so here it is a day late. Hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me 🙂
I hope everyone is doing well and holding up well with the rapidly approaching holiday season and end of 2011. Has the duality of the stressful holiday panic coupled with the undeniably brighter mood made its impression on you yet? It hit me definitely somewhere between hearing Christmas music every where I go and people about ready to kill each other in shopping mall parking lots. Just something about this time of year I guess. I know it always makes me reflective and nostalgic so there is no better time for this week’s post.
Whether we are cognizant of it or not we live a majority of our life fenced in by expectations. Expectations for who we might end up being, what career we end up pursuing and even what kind of people we should spend our time with. These expectations are derived from just about everyone and everything from family, friends, professors, coworkers, strangers and even on a larger scale society. The infectious nature of expectation takes root in motivational material as well. Anything motivational you peruse will tell you the importance of setting goals for yourself and working towards them. What it does not tell you is to take the time to decide what it is you really want in your heart of heart’s. I think if any of us sat down on a given day with all of the decisions and choices we made to explain them, it would be surprising how few of them came from us individually. You would find that a good majority of them were motivated by comments and suggestions from other people whether it is implicitly or explicitly.
As shocking as that might be to realize, there is no inherent harm in that alone. Not living on an island means that our decisions will be influenced by other people whether we are aware of it or not. Sometimes it can be a good thing giving us a direction when our personal compass might be coming up empty or giving us some basic rules to live by. Other times, it can limit us. Just because you should do something or you are expected to do something…does not mean that is the best decision for you personally. To live the life that is best for you, you need to act based on what you want. Like the Murakami quote says no one else can tell you what’s best for you. You need to take the time to figure that out for yourself. Forget about living fenced in by expectations because as the Boorstin quote will also tell you that does not prove to be a rewarding path either. Strive to create and live the life of your dreams because it is ultimately your time here on Earth and your choice to how you would like to use them. People are always going to have opinions regarding what you choose to do and their own theories about it all because they can’t help but be judgmental, but you are better than that. Challenge yourself to truly pursue happiness in the way that it makes sense to you even if that means defying expectations that have been designed to set you on a fenced path. Also, give the people in your life the freedom to do the same. By all means, give your opinion, but don’t forget to love and support them in what they choose to do rather than just criticizing.
You do not get time back and our time here is short enough as it is. Make the most of it and do not live boxed in by convention and expectation. Your life is first and foremost yours so why not...defy? Defy expectation and give the strict supporters of expectations, conventions and norms something to talk about.
That’s all for now. Have a great week!
See you next Sunday,
❤ SQ
The Ten Rules for Being Human
Good afternoon SQers,
Hope you all are doing well! Unfortunately for me, this week is finals time so I will not be able to write a detailed awesome post for you. That being said you really did not think I would leave you this Sunday without giving you a quote or something interesting…did you? Here’s a couple rules I stumbled across this week that I found intriguing. Enjoy and have a great week!
The Ten Rules For Being Human.
1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s yours to keep for the entire period.
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called, ‘life’.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error, and experimentation. The ‘failed’ experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately ‘work’.
4. Lessons are repeated until they are learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end. There’s no part of life that doesn’t contain its lessons. If you’re alive, that means there are still lessons to be learned.
6. ‘There’ is no better a place than ‘here’. When your ‘there’ has become a ‘here’, you will simply obtain another ‘there’ that will again look better than ‘here’.
7. Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie within you. The answers to life’s questions lie within you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. You will forget all this.
-Dr. Cherie Carter-Scott, If Life is A Game, These Are The Rules
See you next Sunday,
❤ SQ